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Need to find an understanding bi or gay man?
Been divorced for two years now and have had some pretty erotic "online affairs" with men, but nothing has happened (too far away, in a committed relationship) with them. I have tried Craigslist but found 99% responses are guys looking for a one night thing or a Spam bot. Any suggestions on where to find a understanding and patient bi man? Thanks.
You have options, its down to you which one of these you are prepared to go for
You can use online dating services. The free ones tend to be full of timewasters. But its worth trying Gaydar or Ladslads. Or you could sign up to one of the better quality online dating services, but many of them charge high prices
You could find a local gay bar, but if you dont live in a large town or city, or you dont want to be seen out, then you could have problems
Or finally, you could try you local cruising ground or sauna/bath-house. In years gone by, when I've visited such places, I think I've actually made more lasting platonic friendships there, than anywhere else.
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